"You kind of know what the other is thinking because you know what you have both gone through."
I didn't have the same experience as others, where family could come and see them. I would look at them through the window outside. I was in a wheelchair for quite some time too, so I had to build up my mobility to be able to walk again.
It's nice knowing that we've been to similar hospitals and had the same experiences. You feel relieved knowing there are people out there who have been through the same stuff. You take all the memories of sailing and cooking on the boat back home with you, but all the friends and all the discussions you've had together too.
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